Compass Care Counseling Mental Health Blog

What It Means to Hold Two Truths at Once
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

What It Means to Hold Two Truths at Once

It's 6pm, dinner is on the stove, and you just lost your patience. The guilt hits before the moment is even over. If you've ever been stuck between shame and wanting to do better, this one is for you. There's a concept in DBT that might change the way you talk to yourself after your hardest moments.

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What Nobody Tells You About Being the Person Who Handles Everything
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

What Nobody Tells You About Being the Person Who Handles Everything

If you're the one everyone counts on but you can't remember the last time you actually felt okay, this one's for you. An honest look at what burnout really looks like on high functioning adults and working parents. And why it so often goes unnamed.

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Why DBT Might Be the Missing Piece If Therapy Hasn't Worked for You Before
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

Why DBT Might Be the Missing Piece If Therapy Hasn't Worked for You Before

If you have tried therapy before and walked away feeling like something was missing, this post is for you. Learn what DBT actually is, how it helps with anxiety, burnout, and relationship conflict, and whether it might be the approach that finally makes things click.

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When Your Thoughts Don’t Give You a Break
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

When Your Thoughts Don’t Give You a Break

Your mind keeps going, even when nothing is wrong. You replay conversations, think ahead, and struggle to fully relax. This post explores why that happens and how to finally feel relief.

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What Acceptance Really Means
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

What Acceptance Really Means

Acceptance isn’t surrender — it’s strength. This post explains how dropping the internal battle with anxiety, stress, and grief can free up energy to live a values-driven life, even in demanding moments. Includes a practical RAIN exercise you can use right away.

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Why Mindfulness Is One of the Most Powerful Emotion-Regulation Tools
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

Why Mindfulness Is One of the Most Powerful Emotion-Regulation Tools

Mindfulness is more than a wellness trend; it’s a research-supported emotion-regulation skill. This post breaks down how mindfulness helps regulate emotions, reduce reactivity, and build resilience by changing how the brain and nervous system respond to stress.

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Finding Joy in Hardship: Lessons from Moving Overseas 
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

Finding Joy in Hardship: Lessons from Moving Overseas 

Through the experience of relocating overseas, this post reflects on the emotional complexity of major life transitions. It weaves personal insight with a therapist’s perspective on vulnerability, self-compassion, and discovering small, sustaining joys during seasons of change.

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Why I Work With Veterans — And What I Want Other Counselors to Know 
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

Why I Work With Veterans — And What I Want Other Counselors to Know 

Military experience is never one-size-fits-all. As a veteran and therapist, I’ve learned how cultural humility, emotional courage, and mutual trust reshape what healing can look like. This is why I continue to serve — and what I wish every counselor understood.

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Feeling Your Feelings
Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT Haley Alexander, LPC, LMHC, C-DBT

Feeling Your Feelings

Therapy isn’t where you escape emotion—it’s where you learn to walk through it. Real healing begins when you stop trying to erase what you feel and start learning how to carry it.

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